Nicola Bodle

Somatic Sexologist

Pronouns: She / Her

About

Nic is a qualified and trauma-informed somatic sexologist passionate about supporting others to gain confidence in themselves and their sexuality.

She offers research backed, pleasure focused, client-led sessions designed to empower you with the skills to invigorate and expand your sexuality.

Her role is to guide you in navigating your sexual exploration by providing quality sex education and coaching, whilst developing deeper connections with your body. She offers individual and couple sessions to people of all ages, backgrounds and sexualities.

Nic is a queer cis woman who is kink and poly friendly. As a neurodivergent practitioner, she understands what it’s like navigating sex and intimacy while living with ADHD and anxiety.

You can read more about Nic and enquire via her website – www.comequiver.com

therapeutic Style

Nic’s sessions are education based, forward thinking and client-led. You will be empowered with tools and skills to figure out where you are, where you want to be, and how you’re going to get there.

Her style is distinct from traditional sex therapy in that instead of focussing on the diagnosis of a dysfunction or disorder, you will expand and move towards a goal of sex positivity and pleasure! This is achieved by not just talking about what’s going on in your head, but what your body is telling you too.

Special Interests
  • Comprehensive and inclusive sex education

  • Increasing intimacy between partners

  • Reducing pain or numbness during sex

  • Understanding consent

  • Increasing pleasure and orgasmicity

  • Early ejaculation and erectile difficulty

  • Reducing sexual shame

Education
  • Graduate Certificate in Sexology – Curtin University

  • Certificate in Somatic Sex Coaching – Institute of Somatic Sexology

  • Bachelor of Arts (Psychology) – University of Sydney

  • Professional Member – Somatic Sex Educators Association of Australasia

  • Certified Sex & Intimacy Consultant – International Institute for Complementary Therapists

Modality & Approach

Somatic sexology is a holistic educational approach to sexual health and pleasure, integrating somatic and embodied practices to explore emotions and sensations within the body.

Together with Nic you will utilise these tools (such as breathing, mindfulness, shifting awareness) to reflect on what you’re currently experiencing sexually, and where you want to get to.

Sessions are collaborative and client-led and there is no touch between the practitioner and client. You will leave each session with take home exercises, educational resources and a renewed sense of excitement about sex!

 
Personal Insight

What is a quote that really resonates with you?
“It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for – and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing. It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool – for love – for your dreams – for the adventure of being alive.” - Oriah Mountain Dreamer

What books have you read more than once?
The Brain That Changes Itself – Norman Doidge

The Mind’s Eye – Oliver Sacks

The Art of Happiness – The Dalai Lama and Howard C. Cutler

Urban Tantra – Barbara Carellas

Anchored – Deb Dana

Scattered Minds - Gabor Maté

No Destination – Satish Kumar

What makes you happy?
Icy cold swims, dinner parties with friends, walking barefoot, animals of all sizes, eating straight from the garden, and great sex!

Website for more information: www.comequiver.com

Get in touch

Please fill out the form to enquire about our services, or contact us directly by phone (02) 6652 1120 or email admin@habourtherapyclinic.com.au and we’ll help you find the right support.
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