Nicola Bodle

Somatic Sexologist, Relationship Coach

Pronouns: She / Her

About

Nic is a certified Sex & Relationship Practitioner passionate about supporting individuals and couples to recognise and communicate their desires, develop deeper connections with their bodies, and experience greater pleasure and intimacy.

Her approach is warm, inclusive and non-pathologising, integrating a range of modalities and offering individual and relationship sessions to people of all ages, backgrounds and sexualities.

Nic is queer, kink-aware and sex-worker friendly, supporting individuals and people in diverse relationship dynamics. As a neurodivergent practitioner, she understands what it’s like navigating sex and intimacy while living with ADHD and anxiety.

You can read more about Nic and enquire via her website – www.comequiver.com

therapeutic Style

Nic offers a holistic educational approach to sexual health and pleasure, integrating somatic and embodied practices to explore emotions and sensations within the body. She works with each client to provide tailored support for their unique challenges, creating a safe and inclusive space for exploration.

She helps people in relationships to better understand and express their needs and emotions, resulting in improved communication, enhanced intimacy and reduced conflict.

You will leave each session with take-home exercises, educational resources and a renewed sense of excitement about sex and intimacy!

Special Interests
  • Desire discrepancies and arousal difficulty

  • Relationship conflict and communication challenges

  • Sexual education and skills

  • Sexual anxiety, avoidance or shame

  • Sexual or genital pain or numbness

  • Early ejaculation and erectile difficulty

  • Difficulty with orgasm

  • Non-monogamy and diverse relationship structures

  • Gender affirming care and sexuality exploration

Education
  • Graduate Certificate in Sexology – Curtin University

  • Certified Somatic Sex Coach – Institute of Somatic Sexology

  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy - Level 1

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Attachment Science in Practice

  • Integrative Sex and Couples Certification Training with Tammy Nelson

  • Member of the Society of Australian Sexologists (SAS)

  • Member of the Somatic Sex Educators Association of Australasia (SSEAA)

  • Sex & Intimacy Consultant – International Institute for Complementary Therapists

  • Bachelor of Arts (Psychology) – University of Sydney

Modality & Approach

Nic’s sessions are collaborative and client-led, integrating a range of modalities:

  • Somatic Sex Coaching

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy

  • Polyvagal Theory

  • Mindfulness

  • Trauma-informed

 
Personal Insight

What makes you feel grounded?
Ocean swims and forest bathing

What is a quote that really resonates with you?
“It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for – and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing. It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool – for love – for your dreams – for the adventure of being alive.”

Oriah Mountain Dreamer


BOOKINGS/CONTACT

 

To get in touch with Nic and book a session or introductory call, visit www.comequiver.com or email hello@comequiver.com

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